Wednesday 23rd August 2017,
Jack Gary

How To Start With Bondage

How To Start With Bondage
Sex & Mischief Intro to S&M Kit

Sex & Mischief Intro to S&M Kit

In this article I want to talk about kinky sex, BDSM, whips and chains, hand cuffs, pleasure – yeah, that’s right, I want to talk about bondage. I also want to recommend an amazing bondage kit that I will talk about in the last paragraph and I’ll even tell you where you can purchase the kit for half the price. Bondage is an interesting topic. That’s because when most people think of it, they think of sadomasochism, dungeons, and lots of leather. BDSM is part of that, but it is also so much more – it is a way to spice up your sex life and a way to look at the world in a brand new way. Here are some starter points on how to get into the whole bondage thing.

First, you have to decide whether you are the sub or the dom. The sub, or subordinate, is basically the person who takes. The dominant person is the one who gives, or doles out the punishments. For instance, the dominant person will be in control and the subordinate person will be at the mercy of the dom. Finding out which one you are is important, because if you are neither, you might not be a fit for the bondage lifestyle. But that doesn’t mean you can’t dabble here and there.

Once you have determined where you stand on the BDSM spectrum – whether you are a sub or a dom – you can start to incorporate some of the basic tenets of the bondage lifestyle into your relationship. I recommend not completely jumping in, but starting off slow. One tool you might want to start off with is a bed restraint. This simple delight straps you into the bed so that you can let your partner do all sorts of dirty things to you against your will – consensually of course. I also recommend picking up a pair of handcuffs, a small whip or crop, and maybe even some nipple clamps.

Once you have all the tools available, it is time to set the scene. Bondage isn’t entirely fun if you go into it spontaneously. I recommend that you paint the scene first with lots of candles, some light music, and all your tools laid out. Depending on how rough or extreme you want to get – or how intense you want the session to be. Over time, it’s normal that you might be searching for more extreme tools. No matter what your experience may be, before you actually get into it, it is important to have a safe word that the sub can call out if it gets to be too much. When you actually start to experiment with the different tools it is important to let everything else go and to be as creative as possible. There is no magic formula to bondage sex, so do whatever feels good.

If you are just starting out with the whole bondage thing, I recommend using the Sex & Mischief Intro to Bondage Kit. This kit is great. It has everything you need to start experimenting with BDSM – a vinyl whip, furry handcuffs, and an eye mask. I recommend handcuffing her to the bed and putting the blindfold over her eyes and then lightly whipping her behind until she is too turned on to take it anymore and then enter her – still with blindfold on. The list is endless as to what you can do with this kit.

If you want to pick up the Sex & Mischief Intro to Bondage Kit, head on over to AdamandEve.com and if you enter my name JACK at check out you can get 50% OFF, FREE completely discreet shipping (no one will know what’s in the box when it gets to your doorstep!), three free DVDs and a mystery gift.

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