Experimenting with different sensations in bed can add a whole new dimension to the sexual experience. When it comes to sex, we typically only use one or two sensations: sight and touch. In this article I want to talk about sensation play, because there is a lot you can bring into the bedroom to tease and titillate, whether it’s ice cold (literally) or fire hot (literally). I also want to let you in on a little product I know about and a place to get it for half off, but more on that in the last paragraph. In the meantime, here is Jack Gary’s ultimate guide to sensation play.
One of the best erotic sensations is ice. Ice is free and readily available. If you are at a hotel, you can usually find ice down your hall and if you are at home, your freezer is probably making a fresh batch right now. Ice is great because it can tease, numb, titillate and provide all sorts pleasure. I like using ice during foreplay, because you can put a cube on a woman’s clitoris and when you are going down on her it can add a whole new level of pleasure.
Another great sensation is feather play. You can tickle with feather and you can erotically torture with feathers. Best of all, you can also spank with feathers. In the old days, they would use feathers as a form of tickle torture. However, in the bedroom it can add a whole new dimension of erotic pleasure. Moreover, there are a number of tools you can use, like feather paddles and even feather whips. Before you whip anyone, though, make sure your partner is consenting and gets off on it, or else it could be slow things down to a complete halt.
Next, one of my favorites is candle wax – hot, dripping candle wax. Candle wax can feel amazing when dripped all over your chest, arms, and even around your groin. It is not burning hot and much of it cools down as soon as it hits the skin, so you don’t have to worry about getting burned. However, in that split second that it does hit your skin, you can bet that it will hurt just a little, but damn will it feel so good. Again, make sure that your partner is into the whole candle wax thing, or else it won’t be so fun.
Lastly, if you want to take the sensation pleasure thing to a whole new level, I recommend picking up a glass dildo, like the Red Hearts Glass Dildo. The great thing about glass dildos is that you can put them into the freezer and take them out right before you use ‘em. Just like you would use a frosted mug for beer, having an ice-cold dildo can feel like nothing you have ever felt before. And this dildo in particular has little heart ridges that will maximize the pleasure and it will give you a mind-blowing orgasm.
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