In this article I want to talk about something that every couple should introduce in the bedroom: spanking. Spanking is a good time for all couples that are looking for a naughty way to spice it up in the bedroom. Yet, there are a few things you need to know before you get into it. I also want to recommend a great product that can greatly add to the pleasure of the spanking experience, but more on that in the last paragraph. In the meantime, here is Jack Gary’s ultimate guide to spanking.
First, you want to make sure that both partners are into the idea of spanking. If you don’t like to be spanked, or if you don’t get off on spanking other people, chances are that spanking just isn’t for you and your partner. When it comes to spanking, it takes the trust of both partners. You also have to be attentive of how hard a partner likes to be spanked. You also have to ask yourself the question: do you like having a bright red palm print on your ass or a little white mark that slowly fades away?
Next, you want to make sure that all extraneous items of clothing are removed. You don’t want to spank someone if you have a lot of rings or bracelets on. In fact, if you get spanked by someone who has a lot of heavy rings on, it can be incredibly painful. So, make sure that before you get down to business you take off all accessories and accouterments. You should also remove all items of clothing – more because being naked can make the whole spanking experience so much sexier.
Also, when you are actually doing the spanking, you want to work your way up. You don’t want to let your hands fly right out of the gate. You want to start with feeling the ass, massaging it, rubbing it and giving it few light taps – followed by a strong grab. As you start getting into it, and you know your partner is getting turned on, you can start building up. You can start slapping harder and harder, but you want to stop as soon as your partner says to take a break. In fact, having a safe word is important – and you never want to make that safe word ‘no.’
Lastly, if you want to add to the whole spanking experience, I highly recommend the Fur Lined Paddle. A paddle makes for an excellent spanking accessory and this fur lined paddle is one of the best. I love this paddle because it has the best of two worlds – a soft side for a little light spanking and a leather side for when it really heats up. When it comes to spanking, having those two sides of the coin is crucial to the whole spanking experience. It should be a little painful, but with some water to put out the fire.
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