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The Essential Tools of Bondage

The Essential Tools of Bondage

Bondage is one of those things that people are afraid of only because of what they have read or watched on TV. However, the bondage lifestyle isn’t as extreme as most people make it out to be. There are many shades of the BDSM lifestyle and I’m not just talking about 50 Shades of Grey. There is, of course, extreme bondage, like choking, ball stomping and more, but there is also light bondage, like tying someone up to a bed or, even lighter, clamping someone’s nipples. BDSM stands for “bondage, discipline, sadism and masochism.” Basically, it is the act of deriving pleasure from feeling restrained, teased, hurt, humiliated and dominated. Usually there is one person doling out the punishment and one person taking it. Usually this depends on whether you are more dominant or submissive. The best part about bondage is that anyone can try it. Bondage can bring to life a stale sex life and improve a marriage. Bondage can reawaken your sex drive and make you crave sex again. Bondage can be a little bit like a miracle cure of sorts. Here are some of the essential tools of bondage.

Under The Bed Restraint System

Under The Bed Restraint System

  • One of the best tools to use when you are introducing bondage into your relationship is something that can tie a partner to the bed. The act of tying someone to the bed and then teasing and pleasuring them into submission is one of the basic tenets of BDSM. In my experience, I usually recommend the Under the Bed Restraint System for anyone that wants to experiment with restraints. The best part about this restraint system is that it fits on any mattress – there are no fancy or hard to understand clasps, levers or hooks. Also, the cuffs are fastened by Velcro so it makes it really easy to escape if it gets too intense. Any way you look at it, though, being restrained to the bed can open a whole world of possibilities if you think about it. What would you do to your partner if he or she were tied up to the bed?
Sexy Slave Kit

Sexy Slave Kit

  • Another great kit is the Sexy Slave Kit. Not only do you get your arm and leg restraints with this kit, but you also get the classic padded mask and feather duster. Sensory deprivation is a unique part of BDSM. Making sure that your partner can’t see what you are doing forces all your senses to work together to make sense of what might come next. Perhaps you’ll get forced to your knees on command. Or perhaps you’ll get thrown on the bed, bent over and fucked from behind. The great thing about this kit, however, is that is brings in all the elements in one neat package. Also, a feather duster makes a great tool for bondage. You might think that feathers might feel nice, but not when you are being tickled to the point where you can’t take it anymore. Tickle torture is another big part of the BDSM lifestyle and this slave kit has one of the best feather dusters to tickle feet, hands or any other erogenous zone.
Candy Ball Gag

Candy Ball Gag

  • Another essential of the bondage lifestyle is a ball gag. One of the most popular and fun is definitely the Candy Ball Gag. This ball gag will make you look like a pig at a Hawaiian luau, but if you want to start experimenting with the BSDM lifestyle this thing is a must. Also, despite what it looks like, it is actually quite easy to wear and has a push button strap to fit snugly on anyone’s head – and it tastes like cherry. Why a ball gag, you might ask? Well, think about this: strap this on your partner and fuck them from behind while you listen to their muffled moans. It is important to make everything consensual and to have a safe word to make sure the sex is all kosher. Another way your partner can tell you that they’ve had enough is by tapping the bed. Bondage is only fun if your partner wants it.
Fetish Fantasy Nipple C-Clamps

Fetish Fantasy Nipple C-Clamp

  •  The next must have on your list of bondage essentials is nipple clamps. Chances are that your boyfriend or girlfriend already likes getting their nipples pinched, squeezed and teased. Why not take it to the next level? The Fetish Fantasy Nipple C-Clamps will do just the trick. These spring-loaded nipple clamps are made from metal and are attached to a chain, which is made out of the same high quality material. The best way to use these clamps is to make sure that your nipples are really hard first before you attach them to the body. They’ll feel a little heavy at first, but then you’ll realize why nipple clamps feel so amazing. In addition, there is nothing hotter than a chick with a stunning rack with a pair of nipple clamps attached to her breasts.
Tantric Satin Pleasure Whip

Tantric Satin Pleasure Whip

  • Lastly, but certainly not least, is a whip. Every BDSM relationship must start with at least one whip. The Tantric Satin Pleasure Whip is perfect because it feels great in your hands with its smooth satin fabric and a little handle so that when you are really whipping you won’t lose your grasp. I’m pretty sure this is the whip that kings, queens and Pharos would use if they were into bondage. However, this whip is more bark than bite. What looks like devastating leather is actually 11 satin ribbons that will deliver some incredibly erotic sensations. What’s so great about this whip is that it is meant for the couple that is just getting used to the ideas of whips and chains. After all, the bondage lifestyle is something that takes a while to get into.

At the end of the day, bondage is a great way to amp up your sex life. You might just find a part of yourself that really enjoys it and then wonder why you haven’t been doing it for longer. There is a reason why it is so popular and it’s certainly not because of the myth that it is scary or painful, but because it actually feels really fucking good. Guys, if you want to take it from Jack Gary, do your lady a favor and give her some extra pleasure – they deserve it.

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